“It’s Been Devastating”: Derek Hough & Hayley Erbert Face Unexpected Fertility Challenges

Behind the dazzling performances and red carpet smiles, Dancing with the Stars couple Derek Hough and Hayley Erbert are quietly facing one of the most emotional battles of their lives — the struggle to start a family.

In a candid and heartfelt revelation, the couple recently opened up about their ongoing fertility journey, admitting that it hasn’t been the smooth path they had once imagined.

“We always thought having kids would be a natural next step,” Derek shared in an emotional interview. “But life doesn’t always follow the script you write in your head.”

The two, who tied the knot in a fairytale wedding in 2023, have been open about their desire to have children. But after months of trying — and enduring the heartbreak of false hopes and doctor visits — they’re learning just how challenging the road to parenthood can be.

A Silent Struggle

Hayley, who has mostly stayed private about the process, recently posted a vulnerable message on Instagram, writing:
“It’s easy to smile in photos. It’s harder to smile when every month feels like another disappointment. But we’re holding on to hope — and to each other.”

Fans were quick to flood her comments with support, many sharing their own stories of infertility and miscarriage. “You’re not alone,” one follower wrote. “So many of us are walking this road with you.”

Staying Strong Together

Despite the emotional weight, Derek and Hayley remain united. Insiders say that the journey, though painful, has brought them even closer.

“We’re learning to communicate in a deeper way,” Derek shared. “There are tears, yes, but there’s also strength. She’s the strongest person I know.”

The couple has reportedly started exploring fertility treatments and other options, though they’ve made it clear they’re taking things one step at a time, focusing on their mental health and relationship first.

“This doesn’t define us,” Hayley said. “But it is a part of our story — and we want to be honest about that.”

Opening the Conversation

In an era where so much of celebrity life feels picture-perfect, Derek and Hayley’s openness is striking — and deeply appreciated by fans who know that behind the glam, real life is messy, raw, and full of uncertainty.

“We don’t have answers,” Derek admitted. “But we have love. And that’s where we start.”

As they continue their journey, the couple is choosing vulnerability over silence, honesty over shame — and above all, hope over fear.