Kristin Cavallari details her custody arrangement with ex-husband Jay Cutler after hinting at ‘change’

   

Kristin Cavallari is clearing up her and Jay Cutler’s custody arrangement.

The “Let’s Be Honest” podcast host explained to listeners Tuesday that she has their three children “most of the time,” which is why she “works so hard” to support them.

“I did have my kids full time for awhile and now I have them except for every other weekend,” Cavallari said of Camden, 12, Jaxon, 11, and Saylor, 9. “I’m not gonna get into the reasoning or the legality of it.”

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler via Instagram

Kristin Cavallari set the record straight on her and Jay Cutler’s custody agreement. Instagram

Kristin Cavallari and kids via Instagram in May 2025

The “Let’s Be Honest” podcast host told listeners she has her kids “most of the time.” kristincavallari/Instagram

Kristin Cavallari's kids via Instagram in April 2025

She and Cutler are the parents of Camden, Jaxon and Saylor. kristincavallari/Instagram

Cavallari’s comments come eight months after she hinted at a “change” in the former couple’s custody agreement.

“I don’t really have a lot of time for anything,” the 38-year-old said in an October 2024 episode — but did not elaborate further.

 

On Tuesday, she also spoke about getting asked about Cutler, 42, in “every single interview.”

Jay Cutler, Kristin Cavallari and kids via Instagram in October 2020

Cutler is with the trio “every other weekend.” kristincavallari/Instagram

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler in May 2015

Cavallari declined to comment on the “reasoning or legality” of the decision. Todd Williamson

“It’s one of those situations where I feel like I can’t f–king win,” the “Hills” alum said, insisting that she tries “so hard never to talk about” the retired NFL player.

“I feel like that is a dealbreaker for me,” Cavallari continued. “And if I say one tiny, tiny little thing then everyone goes, ‘She never shuts the f–k up about her ex-husband. Oh, she’s still talking about him?'”

The reality star noted that she gets “asked the same questions over and over and over” despite calling Cutler an “off-limits” topic.

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler in April 2017

Last year, Cavallari hinted at a “change” in their arrangement. Getty Images

Kristin Cavallari and daughter via Instagram in April 2025

In October 2024, she said she didn’t “really have a lot of time for anything.” Instagram/kristincavallari

“I’ve been divorced for five years and people still ask about it. Like, I can’t win,” Cavallari added, requesting that the public “move on.”

She and the former athlete wed in 2013 and welcomed their two sons and daughter before calling it quits in 2020.

The duo settled their divorce in 2022.

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler in December 2013

Although she dished on Cutler during Tuesday’s episode, she denied “never shut[ting] the f–k up” about him. Getty Images

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler in March 2011

She spoke about getting asked about her ex in “every single interview.” Getty Images

Cavallari defended mentioning Cutler on occasion because their split is “part of [her] story” and her “journey.”

She joked that recent comments over Miley Cyrus name-dropping Liam Hemsworth in an “Every Single Album” podcast interview “made [her] feel better” because haters had the “same s–t” to say about the singer.

Cutler issued his own comment about their co-parenting dynamic earlier this month.

Kristin Cavallari and kids via Instagram in October 2017

“Let’s move on,” Cavallari quipped. kristincavallari/Instagram

Kristin Cavallari and kids via Instagram in March 2020

She and Cutler wed in 2013 and welcomed their kids before calling it quits in 2020. kristincavallari/Instagram

“We’ve got our schedule and it works for us,” he told Us Weekly — despite Cavallari making headlines last year for saying he is a “pathological liar” who brings “zero f–king consistency” to their family.

Cutler has been engaged to Samantha Robertson since November 2024.

While Cavallari revealed on Tuesday that she has not dated anyone this year, she has previously been linked to TikTok star Mark Estes and country singer Morgan Wallen, among others.