Lydia McLaughlin is mourning the loss of her older brother Geoffrey Shyam Stirling.
The Real Housewives of Orange County alum confirmed the family tragedy in a statement to TMZ on Friday (April 18), just two days after Geoffrey died in Newport Beach, California.
Lydia McLaughlin releases a statement on her brother's passing
"My family and I are devastated by the loss of my brother,” she said. “We are grateful for the outpouring of love and support from friends, family, and the community. We kindly ask for privacy as we mourn.”
According to his IMDb and LinkedIn pages, Geoffrey is an alumnus of San Diego University, where he majored in Communication and Media Studies. He went on to secure numerous acting roles in shows like Fashion House, Wicked Wicked Games, and Frank TV. The 45-year-old also worked as a personal trainer, sailing instructor, and an executive producer for Shyam Bird Productions.
The Newport Beach Police Department confirmed Geoffrey’s death is under investigation.
Lydia McLaughlin pays tribute to her late mom, Judy Stirling

In October 2024, Lydia announced the death of her mother, Judy Stirling, who made appearances in RHOC seasons 8 and 12. The former Housewife reflected on the loss in an April 8 Instagram Reel, which included memorable moments with her mom.
“Today marks 6 months since my mom passed away,” Lydia wrote. “I have gone to a beautiful group called Grief Share which has helped me in my healing and processing my grief. It’s a nationwide group if anyone needs support, I recommend them. Grief can make you better or bitter. I am putting in my whole heart to turn my sorrow into thanksgiving, for having the privilege to have such a beautiful mom. She will always be my hero, and my favorite.”