The interviewer then asks Emily if she believes Alexis actually wanted to try to forge a friendship with Shannon despite dating her ex. Emily says, “You know, that’s the thing with Alexis, and I think that’s what was bothering me. I never had a problem with Alexis being with John.”
She continues, “And then the first group outing, which was Heather’s party, I actually rode there with Alexis, and I felt like on the way there she was very reasonable. She was like, ‘I don’t want to fight with Shannon. I don’t wanna be in a bad place with her.’ And I was like, ‘Okay, that’s a mature aspect, but then we get there, and it’s like she says one thing but acts completely different.”
Emily explains, “She’ll say I wanna be friends but then she’ll humiliate her. She’ll say I want to get along with this woman, but then she’ll constantly talk about John in front of her. It doesn’t make sense.”
Emily is also questioned if she thinks Alexis was intentionally mean to Shannon. She responds, “Yeah, when you show up at a dinner, and there are a bunch of people there, and you have copies of receipts, there’s nothing else except you’re just trying to humiliate her.”
The conversation shifts to John and whether or not Emly believes he is “love bombing” Alexis. She explains, “I think so. I also think they have a good relationship. I really do think that they are deeply in love and care about each other, and I don’t think anyone really has a problem with that.”
She goes on, “I think the problem is the constant feeling like we all have to jump on board and accept them and realize that Shannon was the problem and not him. That can’t happen by being forced down your throat. It has to happen over time organically, and I think that’s where she goes wrong.”
Regarding Alexis not taking John’s behavior as a red flag, Emily says, “I don’t think she sees any flags. I think she’s in love, and I think she’s just there to defend him, and she’s his biggest fan, and she’s there to crusade for him, and I think that’s probably a misstep on her part. I think she probably should have come into the group and maybe tried to make friends and establish relationships. I feel like I saw a completely different Alexis. I’d always known her as a girl’s girl and very sweet.”
Fans can watch Emily and the rest of the RHOC cast on Thursday nights.