RHOP Star Tells Her Ex That He Is Her Best Friend

Real Housewives of Potomac” star Mia Thornton discussed her dynamic with her ex-boyfriend, Incognito, also known as Inc, on a March 2025 episode of his podcast, “Posted on the Corner.”

During the podcast episode, Thornton, who announced she and Inc split in early 2025, told him that he is still her “best friend.” She also referenced that she and Inc met while they were in high school. She also suggested that while she is open to rekindling their romance, she is in no rush to do so.

“I love you dearly. And you’ll always be a pivotal part of my life. And I am letting go and just allowing God to navigate our future. Like if we are forever then it’ll happen. There’s no rushing,” said Thornton to Inc during the podcast interview.

The Bravo star also noted that her divorce from Gordon Thornton is not yet finalized. She said, however, that they are successfully co-parenting their children, Jeremiah, Juliana “Juju”, and Joshua.

Mia Thornton Confirmed She & Inc Ended Their Relationship During the RHOP Season 9 Reunion

Thornton confirmed she and Inc had ended their relationship while filming the RHOP season 9 reunion. She said that due to the public nature of their relationship, they were affected by “outside influences.”

She also said while she believed she was “making all the right decisions” regarding her family and her romance with Inc, she now realizes she was “going about it all wrong.” In addition, Thornton said she still considers Inc her “best friend.” She said, however, they do not “need to be in an intimate relationship” with each other.

Mia Thornton Mentioned She Has Not Yet Officially Divorced Her Estranged Husband

During a January 2025 interview on “Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen,” hosted by Bravo producer Andy Cohen, Thornton stated that she and Inc are no longer “together.” She suggested, however, that she would consider mending their romance.

“We are not [together]. Currently,” said Thornton during the interview.

She then shared that RHOP was one of the reasons they ended their relationship.

“Inc has worked really really hard for his reputation. And his career. He’s 20 years in as a syndicated radio personality. And he feels as though this platform is not necessarily — it doesn’t align with his brand,” said Thornton. “I respect that. Now, he’s my best friend. And he will forever be my best friend. Are we exclusive and are we dating? No. It has bridged a gap between us two, which is fine.”

She also noted that she is still legally married to Gordon Thornton.

“I need to get a divorce first. So we’re going to work on that. We’re going to focus on G. We’re gonna focus on the kids. And then, Inc, he’s not going anywhere. What’s meant to be is forever,” said Thornton while filming the “Watch What Happens Live” episode.