Robyn Dixon broke down in tears after discussions about her husband Juan Dixon's lawsuit on Real Housewives of Potomac.
Juan Dixon was fired from Coppin State University after a player told him he was sexually assaulted and he didn't report it.
Robyn insisted her husbnand didn't do anything wrong and defended his honor during their trip to Austin.
The episode ends with Robyn becoming overwhelmed with emotions as she continues to maintain her husband's innocence.
The episode begins on the first day of the Housewives’ trip to Austin, Texas, and there is already drama over Wendy Osefo’s claims that Nneka Ihim’s mother-in-law Lebe was her friend.
Robyn Dixon broke down in tears after discussions about her husband Juan Dixon's lawsuit on Real Housewives of Potomac
Wendy denied that Lebe was her friend, though there was unseen footage from three years earlier where Wendy praised Lebe, leaving the group confused.
Wendy tried to explain, stating, ‘That’s my sister’s friend,’ though the others were under the impression that they didn’t know each other at all.
Ashley Darby says in confession, ‘It's a little baffling that Wendy is saying that she does not know Lebe very well when Lebe got a gele (a ‘traditional head tie world during special occasions’). That is an intimate thing. You don't just give that to any Jane on the street. And it's not like Wendy to not tell the truth. So I’m just like, why are you lying?’
Wendy says in confession, ‘Ivy was friends with Lebe. So, yeah, she was at my daughter's sip and see. She got a head tie. But if we're being quite honest, so did Gizelle. So, how about that?’
Nneka mentions, ‘You honored her at your daughter’s party,’ but Wendy says, ‘Were you there? Or were you still in L.A. smoking crack?’
Nneka warns, Be careful with the allegations, honey. Nobody is smoking crack over here.’
Nneka adds in confession, ‘Wendy saying that I am doing crack is another deflection. It's like just own up to what you did. You and your family tried to attack me, and you're mad that I got a seat at the table.’
A producer asks Wendy if she has, ‘a crack receipt,’ but she just says, ‘If it quacks like a duck, then guess what? Crack it is.’
Honored: Nneka mentions, ‘You honored her at your daughter’s party,’ but Wendy says, ‘Were you there? Or were you still in L.A. smoking crack?'
They decide to ease off on the allegations and Karen Huger says she’s trying to, ‘and I'm trying to facilitate in this group all of us being able to at least communicate. I don't need to see two beautiful Nigerian women going at it like that.’
They decide to dance it out as Candiace Dillard-Bassett starts to talk to Nneka and asks if she’s ‘genuinely OK’ and she saw Nneka was hurt, before Wendy comes up to them and tells Candiace not to talk about her.
Candiace adds in confession, ‘I don't mind that Wendy is telling me how she feels, but I'm not going to change my stripes for anyone's comfort. I want to make sure that this girl, who is clearly going through it with the shrine people, is okay.’
They all leave and get ready for the evening as they discuss how many pairs of boots Ashley brought - four.
They all get into their vehicles, with Karen, Ashley, Nneka and Gizelle Bryant getting into one SUV as they explore what happened earlier.
Nneka says it was, ‘incredibly defamatory’ for Wendy to allege that Nneka was smoking crack as they agree she should apologize but Nneka thinks she won’t.
‘She's not going to because she's upset about the scenario and her mom. And for her to admit that any conversation like that transpired would admit that her mom consults with a shrine or, like, has interaction with a shrine. Like, who can admit that? I'm open to anything, even just saying, "Girl, I didn't know," 'cause mamas be crazy, right? But just the whole dismissal is ridiculous,’ Nneka says.
Meanwhile in the other vehicle, Wendy says there is, ‘no relationship to salvage there’ with Nneka, before they arrive at the restaurant.
They decide to ease off on the allegations and Karen Huger says she’s trying to, ‘and I'm trying to facilitate in this group all of us being able to at least communicate. I don't need to see two beautiful Nigerian women going at it like that'
They start making jokes about chewing food and swallowing when Wendy blurts out, ‘Excuse me, who at the table swallows?’
Robyn Dixon raises her hand and adds, ‘I mean, I’m very good at it,’ as Candiace is shocked and Mia Thornton says, ‘I believe her.’
Ashley says in confession, ‘Robyn be putting that mouth to work,’ with a laugh, while Candiace says, ‘We, for some reason, tend to bond over nasty sexual conversations, like swallowing cheating-ass men's penis juices. I love it.’
Karen adds in confession, ‘And given the headlines, wouldn't be swallowing it. Girl, you don't know what you're drinking.’
Robyn asks the table if she’s the only one, and Nneka says she does as well, though Mia says she stopped when she got married.
Gizelle adds, ‘I have, but I don’t,’ while Candiace drops another bombshell adding she’d rather be ‘peed on before doing that.’
Mia says in confession that is, ‘on brand,’ for Candiace, as Candiace adds, ‘You do it in the shower’ as Karen wonders aloud, ‘How did we get here?’
Wendy asks Robyn, ‘You don’t eat oysters but you swallow cum?’ Robyn says, ‘Yes,’ and when Mia asks if she does it because she thinks it turns her man on, she adds, ‘I feel like it’s just a part of being intimate.’
They start making jokes about chewing food and swallowing when Wendy blurts out, ‘Excuse me, who at the table swallows?’
Mia asks if Robyn licks ‘booty hole’ as their food arrives, as most have not but Mia says she has.
Karen adds, ‘As you move forward in life, you have to come up with creative ways. So you can please one another. There's nothing wrong with that. But I don't know what's happening at this table, but, also, it's authentic and candid sharing.’
Wendy jokes, ‘We ate, we drank we talked about cum,’ as Ashley jokes that Robyn swallowing are, ‘why her teeth are so white.’
Nneka says she is so grateful that they called at just the right time because she’s been ‘trying to conceive for the past several months and we haven’t been successful.’
Candiace asks how many she wants to have, as Nneka says, ‘I would love to have twins, a boy and a girl, then be done.’
They all leave the restaurant and Robyn says everyone is invited to her hotel room when they get back.
They get back to Robyn’s room as Mia tries out the piano, but both Karen and Gizelle leave, as Gizelle asks someone to text her what time to get ready tomorrow.
Candiace reveals she’s wearing Robyn’s slippers, which gives Robyn some pause.
Twins: Candiace asks how many she wants to have, as Nneka says, ‘I would love to have twins, a boy and a girl, then be done'
'It was literally just weeks ago Candiace chose to bash me online,’ Robyn says in confession as they show Candiace’s tweets about Robyn and an interview where she calls Robyn, ‘a fraud.’
‘And now she’s in my room, wearing my slippers, acting like nothing ever happened. I’m confused as s**t,’ Robyn adds in confession.
The ladies all start leaving Robyn’s room but Candiace tells Robyn she wants to talk tomorrow, adding, ‘It’s time,’ as Robyn agrees.
Candiace adds in confession, ‘Robyn has always been like a big sister to me, and being in this space where we're able to have fun definitely reminds me of where we used to be. So, bitch, we need to talk.’
Candiace leaves and thanks Robyn for the slippers and says she’ll bring them back.
The next morning, Nneka calls her husband Iyke, who says he’s heading to the airport and asks how the first day of the trip went.
‘It was so weird. This Wendy thing keeps going on. She said I was a crackhead,’ Nneka says as Iyke can’t help but laugh and says, ‘Everybody knows you’re not a crackhead,’ adding, ‘Just ignore her.’
Ashley is getting ready as Gizelle and Robyn arrive and have breakfast, as Gizelle tells Robyn she didn’t want to leave because she didn’t want to leave her with people bashing her, meaning Candiace.
‘Candiace, for sure, she's been trashing me left and right, incessantly,’ as Ashley says, ‘I found it odd she came to your room.’
Robyn adds that Candiace is, ‘saying that I plotted on her husband and, you know, calling me a fraud. And saying whatever was going on with Juan, like, was a cover up so that we could talk about Chris.
The rest of the ladies arrive, some who see the easels and ask if they are, ‘painting something.’
Ashley explains, ‘I think this activity is meant to be about reconnecting with our femininity. Because as women, you know, a part of our identity is with our reproductive organs. So, what I had planned for us to do today…’ as Nneka says, ‘We're gonna paint our cootchie?’
Ashley says, ‘Yes,’ as Karen clearly isn’t into it, as Ashley adds, ‘Or your interpretation of your vagina, if you don't wanna be literal.’
Karen says, ‘Not I,’ as Wendy adds, ‘Ashley, what the f**k?’ Ashley adds, ‘Okay, well, you've seen each other's cootchies before. Why y'all acting all bashful now?’
They show flashback footage from last year where Mia tells Gizelle that Wendy showed her her vagina.
Ashley explains, ‘The idea was that it would be a-an intimate, personal experience,’ as Karen adds, ‘I'm not comfortable with it.’
Idea: Ashley explains, ‘I think this activity is meant to be about reconnecting with our femininity. Because as women, you know, a part of our identity is with our reproductive organs. So, what I had planned for us to do today…’ as Nneka says, ‘We're gonna paint our cootchie?'
Ashley explains, ‘You can draw a rose. You can-- it doesn't have to be literal,’ which Karen is much more comfortable with.
Candiace says in confession, ‘If we're gonna be honest about these paintings, it should be some busted cootchies 'cause they've been out here in these streets doing concubine foolishness, and you should be painting roast beef.’
Karen adds, ‘Robyn, Ashley wanted to make sure you had the second penthouse room because she wanted to make sure you were okay. And honestly, there's a whole group of friends over here that don't know what you're going through. I feel like, Robyn, you selectively speak to one pocket of the friendship circle, okay? Okay, in doing so, you certainly divide the group. So, Robyn, I'm asking you directly. How are you doing?’
Robyn explains, ‘So, I don't-- um, first of all, what I've experienced personally is not dividing the group. I speak to the people who actually reach out to me and say, "I'm sorry you're going through this. Are you okay?"’
Candiace adds, ‘So, when I reached out to you, and you ignored me,’ as Robyn adds, ‘Are you serious?’ After-after you've trashed me on social media incessantly, really? Do you know what I've gone through? I have gone through f***ing torture!’
Candiac says quietly, ‘Well, so-so have I,’ as Royn adds, ‘But at my expense? No,’ but Karen says, ‘Robyn, listen. Yes, Robyn, at your expense because of you hiding your truth.’
Robyn says, ‘If I didn't tell my mama what happened, why the f**k would I walk in front of any of y'all?’
Karen adds, ‘Robyn, you need to be accountable,’ as Robyn stands up and says, ‘Well, what do you wanna do? You wanna f***ing beat me up or something'? What do you wanna do? Hold me accountable. I'm here. I'm here.’
Candiace says in confession, ‘If we're gonna be honest about these paintings, it should be some busted cootchies 'cause they've been out here in these streets doing concubine foolishness, and you should be painting roast beef'
Karen adds, ‘You lied the entire year, but you asked all of us to be accountable.’
Karen says in confession, ‘You know what? This outfit reminds me of those women in a polygamy camp, and they're gonna stand up for their man. Only thing Robyn was missing was her bonnet. "Juan is a good man. You just don't know. Ask me, ask me! Ask me anything about Juan." Girl, the whole world know about Juan. We don't need to ask you about Juan. Sit your a** down and get a bonnet. Robyn, it's yours. I'll save it for you.’
Robyn says in front of the group, ‘Can we stop with this because this is a very personal experience?’ as Karen says, ‘Which you drug us into. I'm sorry. The minute you put a price $5.99 on it, Robyn, and sold it to the world, you drug us into it.’
Robyn asks what that has to do with her and Karen says, ‘You betrayed us with your accountability. You compromised the integrity of our entire group.’
Wendy asks, ‘How come we never saw you going up your homegirl saying, "You know what? I've been really stressed because this is going on.”’
Robyn says, ‘Okay, I will address that. This girl dmd me. I wasn't looking in my messages. She messaged Gizelle.’
Gizelle adds, ‘And just because y'all did not see or hear our discussions doesn't mean it didn't happen,’ but Karen says, ‘Bulls**t,’ as Ashley says under her breath, ‘We need to just paint some p***ies.’
Candiace adds, ‘I have a question. You said that there was a DM exchange, and you didn't read it,’ as Robyn says she didn’t.
Gizelle adds, ‘And just because y'all did not see or hear our discussions doesn't mean it didn't happen,’ but Karen says, ‘Bulls**t,’ as Ashley says under her breath, ‘We need to just paint some p***ies'
‘But there's no part of you that wants to know what they were saying to each other that was potentially inappropriate?’
Robyn responds, ‘It-- no. Uh, Juan no longer had the messages with her. Like, he cleans his phone out like crazy. Like, he deletes everything, okay? So, he did not have the messages with her,’ as Wendy says, ‘Oh, girl.’
Robyn adds, ‘Like, literally, he doesn't even store people's phones. He'll have coaches reach out to him, and he's like, "I don't know who this is," 'cause he's weird, okay?’ So, he did not have the messages with her, and I don't communicate with thirst buckets.’
Gizelle says in confession, ‘In Robyn's defense, there is something called trust. So, if you are gonna trust somebody, then you don't have to try to verify everything that they're saying. But it wouldn't be me. I'd be looking all up and through.’
They thank Robyn for clarifying and she adds, ‘And if y'all wanna hold me to this fire all week, I'm good,’ but Karen insists, ‘That-that was not what this was about.’
Ashley adds, ‘Robyn, I am glad we had the discussion because, you know, the activity that we had today, even though I think would have been fun and nice, we're not doing that now, okay? So, yeah, y'all took up the whole damn morning. So, now we're gonna do two activities. We're either gonna go to a distillery. Or we're gonna go to a cowboy boot shop. We can't go as a whole group 'cause there are a lot of us. And then we're all going to have lunch. So, everybody take a thing out the hat.’
The group is split into two groups, as they leave to get ready, as Karen gets on a conference call in her hotel.
‘I have been with Pave for many, many years. Pave is an organization which empowers victims who have been raped,’ Karen says in confession.
‘But there's no part of you that wants to know what they were saying to each other that was potentially inappropriate?’
‘My job with Pave is to sound the horn for those who have been attacked. We are not victims. We-we are victors. And as I approach triple 20, this Pave event means the world to me because I'm continuing that March,’ she adds in confession.
They all meet in the lobby and split into two cars, Robyn, Nneka, Ashley and Gizelle in one car and Karen, Mia, Wendy and Candiace in the other.
Ashley asks Robyn if she’s OK and Robyn says, ‘t's just nonsense. People act like I did something to them. Like, no. If someone comes to you with private information, and you keep it private.’
Ashley jokes, ‘Ain't nobody in this group gonna be like, "Hey, guys, here's all my dirty laundry."
In the other car, Candiace asks ‘Do you feel like you've gotten everything you needed from Robyn?’-
Karen says, ‘I think I've gotten everything that Robyn can give. But at the same time, I heard in Robyn's voice the way she loves that man.’
Candiace insists, ‘their situation is complicated,’ but Wendy flatly says, ‘I don't care. If you wanna be with him, if he cheats on you, if he goes to Canada, if he goes to Nigeria, I don't care.’
Robyn, Nneka, Ashley and Gizelle arrive at Tecovas Boots, as they’re lead to the bar to start with some complimentary drinks.
‘My job with Pave is to sound the horn for those who have been attacked. We are not victims. We-we are victors. And as I approach triple 20, this Pave event means the world to me because I'm continuing that March,’ she adds in confession
Karen, Mia, Wendy and Candiace arrive at the distillery… though they ask for beer and wine, two things you won’t find at a distillery.
They take some shots of fresh whiskey, as the employee says it’s about 150 proof, which the ladies clearly can’t handle, as Candiace says her tongue is numb.
Back at the boot shop, they all try on some new boots, as Ashley compliments Nneka on her, ‘stunning’ wedding ring.
Nneka adds she’s been married for just a year and a half, adding, ‘It was chaos 'cause I'm trying to plan this wedding from L.A., and I moved to the DMV area one week before our wedding. And I didn't really come back here enough, which is why I'm, like, really disappointed in my wedding. Nothing went as planned. My decor, horrendous. My outfits were horrendous. Like, everything was a mess.’
Robyn suggests, ‘So, you need a do-over maybe,’ as Nneka says, ‘I do. So, we haven't done our Nigerian traditional wedding, so we're gonna do that.’
Nneka adds in confession, ‘You know, when we first got married, we agreed that we wanted to have our Nigerian traditional wedding after we expand our family. But, honestly, that's something I wanna really enjoy all the festivities. I wanna wear all the beautiful dresses, which are normally, like, corsets glued to your body. You can't breathe, can barely walk. Like, that's not gonna work if I'm pregnant.’
Robyn says, ‘Nneka, first of all, I'm so glad you're here. Hopefully, we don't, you know, scare you away or whatever.’
Nkeka is asked if they have scared her a bit and she says, ‘No.I like you ladies.’
Karen, Mia, Wendy and Candiace arrive at the distillery… though they ask for beer and wine, two things you won’t find at a distillery.
Robyn adds, ‘But even with, like, how-how they were talking to me today, like, that's not something that you normally would, like, how you would, like, normally talk to a friend.’
Nneka says, ‘I don't know why there was such a heated issue. You know, I feel like you've been transparent, even with me, and I'm just meeting you the past couple of weeks. You've been an open book.’
Gizelle adds, ‘I feel like they made it about them. Like, that, for me, is, like, disgusting.’
Back at the distillery, the ladies all toast with some new drinks, as Mia says she’s not drinking alcohol.
They see a bird on a fence as Wendy says, ‘Y’all know my history with birds,’ as they show flashback footage of Wendy freaking out as a bird flies on her.
Mia says, ‘That’s not your mama, is it?’ Wendy is clearly not amused and says, ‘Don’t do that. No, that's not even funny.’
Mia insists she’s just kidding, but asks to clear that up, though Wendy says, ‘There’s nothing to clear up.’
Mia asks, ‘Did you say that your mama did not send names to the shrine?’
Wendy says, ‘I don't need to defend this because I never thought I should, but when you guys are saying, "Shrine" you're saying it in a way in which leaves it up to the imagination for what it is. Catholics have shrine. Our saints have different shrines, and it's not something negative because what we do know for a fact,’ as she’s asked, ‘So, you do use a shrine.’
No, I didn't say that. Catholicism uses a shrine, as Mia says, ‘'Cause when someone says someone is sending people's names to the shrine, I'm like don't send mine.
Wendy says, ‘Well, it was said in that manner that it would cast that doubt. - There you go, and it was shrouded in, people started saying witchcraft, and we're talking Nigerians and Africans. And honestly, as someone who grew up being misunderstood because I was Nigerian, this conversation has been very triggering for me. Um, I thank God that I was raised by a woman of Christ. And just to hear her be maligned in this way, it's like…’ as Wendy starts getting emotional.
‘When you're raised by a single mom who literally sacrificed her life for you and gave up her life, so you can be good, you're not gonna sit there and be friends with someone who attacks her. And so, I don't play about my mom,’ Wendy says.
Mia says, ‘You know, Wendy, I know we had our differences, but I really do want what's best for you, and that seems like it's… that's a real sensitive topic. So, I'm gonna leave it alone.’
The other group leaves the boot store with a pair of new boots each as hey head next door for lunch as the other group arrives as they start ordering drinks.
They said they learned more about Nneka, who admits her wedding at the Watergate was, ‘a disaster.’
She adds, ‘but I'm okay, 'cause I'm looking forward to my traditional wedding in Nigeria, and I'm doing that. It's so important to me, like, being on my father's land and getting married at my compound in the village like it's traditionally done. So, my husband being as a titled man, and he feels really compelled to do it, too.’
Nneka explains that being a titled man is, ‘kind of like a chief, in a sense. It's like a special title. You can get it, um, some people pay for it nowadays. But he didn't.’
Robyn jokes, ‘It's like a blue check,’ as Nneka adds, ‘So, it's important to him that we do it according to culture, as well.’
Karen asks, ‘Now, what is this buying titles, though?’ Robyn says, ‘You know how you and Mia bought your blue checks on Twitter?’
Karen says, ‘Wait a minute. Wait. I did not buy mine,’ but Mia admits she did, as Robyn says, ‘You and Mia are the only two that still have a blue check.’
Karen says, ‘Maybe they like me, and they don't like you,’ as Gizelle says, ‘That's not how it works.’
Wendy adds, ‘Let me just tell you this, though. It tells you how it was acquired,’ as Karen goes to her Twiter and reads, ‘Verified account-- this account is verified because they are subscribed to Twitter Blue.’
Wendy says, ‘Blue, you subscribed. That means you paid for it,’ but Karen insists, ‘I did not pay for this!’
Karen insists in confession, ‘I am innocent. I would have never paid for a blue check,’ though it’s discovered that the payment went through her Apple Pay and she apparently didn’t know.
Karen insists in confession, ‘I am innocent. I would have never paid for a blue check,’ though it’s discovered that the payment went through her Apple Pay and she apparently didn’t know
Karen keeps saying she’s innocent but most don’t believe her, as Robyn finds the monthly payment on Apple pay that went through, though Karen still insists, ‘I’m innocent!’
Ashley tells the group, ‘So, after we finish up, we're gonna go do chickens**t bingo. This is an iconic tradition in Austin. So, let's experience it.’
Karen is hesitant, asking, ‘Is there a real chicken there? I can't be around chickens,’ adding in confession, ‘I don't know where Ashley gets this from. This divorce is taking her through it. I'll tell you that. She's very creative-- vagina, chickensh-- bingo. I'm trying to be there for the girl, but this is a bit much.’
Ashley tells the group that she’s still getting a divorce but they’re still working out custody.
Wendy says in confession, ‘Has she even filed for divorce? Do we even know? I understand this is a man who plucked her up off the curb and put her in the condo in the sky, but, also, bitch, put your Nikes on and run. Like, what are you doing?’
Mia asks what’s going on with Ashley’s ex Michael suing Candiace, but she simply says, ‘I'm not speaking about that in this group.’
Robyn asks, ‘So, can we get a list of, like, what we can talk about and what we're not supposed to talk about?’
Candiace says, ‘No. We can be dense a different day,’ which seems to shock Robyn.
Candiace adds, ‘Robyn, you're not dumb. It’s a legal matter. Which, I mean, you, I think-- you kind of went against that when you spoke about your husband's legal matter.’
They show a flashback from a reunion where Andy Cohey is discussing Juan Dixon’s lawsuit about a player coming to him and claiming he was sexually harassed and he failed to report it, as Robyn briefly discusses it.
Candiace says, ‘I don't know that that helped you. I'm not making those mistakes.’
Robyn says, ‘His legal matter has nothing to do with anything,’ as Wendy says, ‘A Title IX violation has nothing to do with why a university employee was fired?’
Robyn says, ‘Think about it. The State of Maryland is representing Juan. You know why? Because they all know that it's bulls**t.
Wendy says in confession, ‘A Title IX violation prohibits discrimination on sex, gender, sexual orientation. Coaches are supposed to be leaders. If they're not of good moral standing, that trickles down to the entire team. And between the lawsuit, the publicity for infidelity, for her to really think that that's not why he got fired, Robyn, you can't be that naive.’
They all get in their cars and talk about chickens**t bingo as Robyn talks about the lawsuit with Juan, as Robyn starts crying, as the episode comes to an end
Robyn adds, ‘The university actually knows that he did not do anything wrong, that he called his athletic director as soon as he found out, that they were meeting with campus police the very next day. They know the actual facts. He didn't commit a Title IX violation. That's all I'm saying.’
Robyn says in confession, ‘He did not do anything that he was accused of in this lawsuit. There is no Title IX violation. So, Miss Smarty-pants can shut up 'cause clearly she's trying to make things worse.’
They head back to the hotel to change for bingo as Gizelle is by the pool and tlls her husband, ‘A bird pooped in the pool, and it's floating on top of the water. I jumped out the pool! I was disgusted.’
They all get in their cars and talk about chickens**t bingo as Robyn talks about the lawsuit with Juan, as Robyn starts crying, as the episode comes to an end.
