The Real Housewives of Potomac alum Candiace Dillard Bassett is stepping out of the reality TV spotlight and back into the music world with her emotional new single, “How Do You Live?” In a heartfelt sit-down with Entertainment Tonight, Candiace revealed how the song is not just a musical release, but a deeply personal journey of reflection, pain, and healing.
Candiace, known for her fiery presence and vocal prowess on RHOP, said the song was inspired by the grief and confusion she felt while navigating major life changes — including stepping back from the Bravo series after five seasons. “This song was written in a moment when I felt completely broken,” she admitted. “It’s a question I think so many of us ask when life throws things at you that you weren’t ready for.”
“How Do You Live?” blends soulful vocals with poignant lyrics, creating a ballad that speaks to the heart of anyone going through loss — whether it be love, friendship, or purpose. Fans have already praised the single for its raw honesty and vocal vulnerability, noting that Candiace has grown tremendously as an artist since her debut album Deep Space.
In her interview, Candiace also opened up about her departure from RHOP, saying it was time to focus on her music career and mental health. “Reality TV gave me a platform, and I’m grateful for that,” she said. “But now, I want to tell my story in my own words, through music.”
The video for “How Do You Live?” is set to release later this month, and Candiace hinted that it will feature dramatic visuals that mirror the emotional weight of the song. With plans for a new EP and possibly a tour, Candiace is determined to prove that she’s not just a reality star who sings — she’s an artist with something real to say.
Whether you loved her on The Real Housewives of Potomac or are just discovering her through her music, one thing is clear: Candiace is ready to be heard — on her own terms.
