Ubah Hassan Isn't Thrilled About Her Boyfriend's House: “It’s Stressing Me”

Inquiring minds want to know, and Ubah Hassan has an update about Mr. Connecticut in a recent tease of The Real Housewives of New York City.

In a clip of the upcoming Season 15, Episode 3, the Ubah Hot model got Ubah candid about her once-super-secret beau, German investment banker Oliver Dachsel. Riding in the passenger’s seat with Sai De Silva behind the wheel on the way to the hamptons, Ubah said some recent muscle strain could be the result of stress over things on the romantic front — including whether she'll move in with him.

Does Ubah Hassan live with boyfriend Oliver Dachsel?

While Ubah doesnt live with him (at least, at the time of filming), she confirmed her boyfriend wants her to make the move and is helping her have a special space at his house.

“I don’t want to rush anything,” Ubah told Sai. “I’m not a person who rush[es] things out, and I think that’s why it’s stressing me because Oliver already got a room for me to paint; big, huge canvas. And painting and everything, and I have a whole room for me to paint in Greenwich.”

Ubah was referring to Oliver’s home in Greenwich, Connecticut — not Manhattan’s Greenwich Village — about an hour northeast of New York City.

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Ubah agreed with Sai that she found the gesture “very sweet,” but she still had reservations about feeling trapped. Sai countered, saying Oliver was only trying to offer her a place where she could be comfortable.

“This drives me crazy,” Sai told her friend. “You get opportunities, and then when you get them, you freak out, and you want to throw them away.”

Sai said “surrender” was key.

Ubah Hassan loves Oliver's feet

It remains to be seen whether Ubah and Oliver will solidify plans to live under one roof, she told producers in the recent preview.

“I absolutely adore Oliver,” she said. “He wants me to move in. When I’m with him, it’s a really nice conversation, but when I’m not with him, I’m freaking out.”

Photo: by Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images for American Ballet Theatre

Regardless of whether Ubah will move in with Oliver, she at least holds a fondness for his … feet?

The surprising revelation came up during her conversation with Sai.

“He has the most beautiful feet,” Ubah 'fessed up. “And it smells really good, too.”

She repeatedly called Oliver her “baby” and referred to his “baby feet,” admitting to smelling and massaging her man’s tootsies “all the time.”

“The guy is super clean,” Ubah insisted. “Trust me.”

Will Ubah Hassan's boyfriend Oliver appear on RHONY?

Ubah kept Oliver a secret in RHONY Season 14 until Brynn Whitfield spilled her secret in the finale — a tumultuous time that still has both women at odds as Season 15 continues.

Ubah and her former man of mystery have now been together for more than a year and, as detailed in the Season 15 premiere, they’re even talking about perhaps one day having children, she told Erin Lichy and Rebecca Minkoff.

“So, I think I’m going to start trying in November or December,” she said. “He said, ‘Relax, if it works, great, if it doesn’t, we’ll adopt.’”

Oliver has yet to make an appearance on the reality series, but the ‘Wives (and even their husbands) have only good things to say.

“When I look at them together, I’m like, I get like giddy and excited,” Erin gushed in an October 2023 interview with The Daily Dish. “Since I’m obviously married for so long, there’s nothing more exciting to me to watch a friend go through those stages.” 

Abe Lichy had the same sentiment:

“It feels like they balance well, too,” Erin’s husband said. “Oliver is just a sweet guy, not that [Ubah's] not sweet, but he seems like a very levelheaded, calm, patient person and I think they complement each other very well. I’m really happy for them.”