Charles Oakley Shocks RHOA Reunion: “I’m the Only Husband Here!” — Dishes on Shereé, Infidelity & Why Angela Stayed

Much like his NBA days, Charles Oakley played skillful defense on Part 3 of The Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 16 Reunion.

Referencing his pro basketball nickname, Charles joked that "sometimes you need an enforcer," but insisted that he was just there to "support" his wife, Angela Oakley, whom he said "did great" during her first season as an RHOA peach holder.

However, Charles took issue with Shamea Morton and Phaedra Parks claiming to know him, but not Angela (or that he was even married, for that matter) on the show. As he saw it, attending the same events as the ladies in the past did not mean they had actually met or knew each other in any capacity.

Angela, meanwhile, accused her castmates of making those comments simply to be "shady."

After the women had discussed Charles' marriage and past infidelity, among other topics throughout the season, Charles still couldn't figure out why their conversations were focused on him in the first place.

"Everybody wanna know about me. What about y'all?" he asked the group. "I'm the only husband here. Where your husband's at?"

Charles Oakley reveals new details about his relationship with Shereé Whitfield

Though Charles never quite saw eye to eye with Shamea or Phaedra on whether or not they had formally met each other prior to filming, the latter tried to jog his memory by mentioning her friendship with RHOA alum Shereé Whitfield.

"I know Shereé very well and I remember when y'all were a couple at one point," Phaedra told him. "I have been in your presence on numerous occasions." 

As he shot back, "That don't mean you know me though."

Later, host Andy Cohen asked for more details on Charles and Shereé's relationship, and the NBA legend revealed that they dated for a "couple of years" roughly two decades ago.

Charles further shared that he and Shereé were "moving" and had traveled both "around the country," as well as to Dubai together, during their romance.

Appearing less than thrilled to be on that subject, Angela, for her part, noted that, unlike some of Charles' other exes, "Shereé let go," elaborating, "She's not someone who I think is interested in my husband or vice versa."

Charles Oakley opens up about his marriage to Angela Oakley

Throughout the RHOA men's segment, which also featured Porsha Williams' ex-fiancé Dennis McKinley and Drew Sidora's estranged husband Ralph Pittman, Charles also gave new insight on his and Angela's marriage.

Despite Andy pointing out that some viewers perceived him as not caring for her much, Charles denied that was the case and insisted that he has Angela's back "through thick and thin," even if that's not how it came across on the show. (He said he had watched "some" of the episodes, btw.)

"I'm not the guy who just be all over Angela on TV," he explained. "I don't try to put on for cameras. And she know I love her, and I wouldn't be here if I didn't love her and the kids."

After once again clearing up rumors about his alleged secret "side baby" (and Wendy Williams' role in perpetuating them), he and Angela also detailed how therapy helped repair their strained marriage in the aftermath of Charles' Madison Square Garden incident and ensuing instances of cheating.

Charles credited their "sharp" therapist, Dr. Wendy, as hitting point that made him "open up more" and hold himself "more accountable" in the marriage.

As he concluded, "I'm just glad Angela stayed strong and stayed with me."

Get even more details on how Angela and Charles navigated their past separation.