Dick Van Dyke, 99, makes rare comment on 46-year age gap with wife Arlene Silver: ‘Everybody said it wouldn’t work’

   

Dick Van Dyke is proving age is just a number as he shuts down critics of the 46-year age gap with his wife, Arlene Silver.

“We get along so well,” the “Mary Poppins” star, 99, told People Sunday at the couple’s Vandy Camp fundraiser in Malibu, Calif. “Everybody said it wouldn’t work.”

Silver, 53, added, “We just care about each other so much,” explaining that it’s “eerie how well [the marriage] works.”

Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver at the Vandy Camp event.

Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver, seen here on Sunday at the Vandy Camp event to aid fire relief in Malibu, have been married for 13 years. BACKGRID

Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver walking outdoors.

The couple has a 46-year age gap. Getty Images

“People the same age don’t last,” Silver joked.

The Disney icon sweetly recalled first meeting the makeup artist during the SAG Awards in 2006.

“I never said hello to a strange girl in my life,” he confessed. “I was too scared. But I was at a show backstage and she walked by, and for some reason, I just jumped up and said, ‘Hi, I’m Dick.’ There’s something about her [that] got me, and I was right.”

Dick Van Dyke laughs and holds a mic.

Van Dyke, 99, recalled meeting Silver for the first time at the 2006 SAG Awards. BACKGRID

Dick Van Dyke kissing Arlene Silver on a red carpet.

“We get along so well,” the actor said of their relationship. REUTERS

After their initial meeting, Van Dyke hired Silver as a makeup artist for subsequent projects, but they didn’t start dating until years later.

The couple also agreed that they empower one another, with Silver sharing that Van Dyke “made me feel like I can do anything.”

“And you can,” Van Dyke replied.

Arlene Silver and Dick Van Dyke at the Kennedy Center Honors.

Silver, 53, said it’s “eerie” how well the marriage works. Getty Images

Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver pose on the red carpet.

Silver was 40 and Van Dyke was 86 when they married in 2012. Getty Images

The pair tied the knot in 2012 when the comedian was 86 and Silver was 40.

Van Dyke, who narrowly escaped the expansive fires in Los Angeles in January, once said he didn’t even realize Silver was decades younger when he first approach her.

“I had no idea she was half my age,” he told Entertainment Tonight in 2024. “Beautiful.”

“I was fortunate that I didn’t grow up,” he added in part. “We were meant to be.” 

Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver sit and pose for a photo.

Van Dyke once said he had “no idea” Silver was decades younger. CBS via Getty Images

Dick Van Dyke walks with a cane outdoors.

Van Dyke was previously married to Margie Willett, with whom he shares four adult children. BACKGRID

The “Dick Van Dyke Show” star was previously married to Margie Willett from 1948 to 1984.

The former couple share four grown children: Christian, 74, Barry, 73, Stacy, 69, and Carrie Beth, 63.

He also had a long-term relationship with Michelle Triola Marvin, living with the actress from 1976 until her death in 2009.